or is it society who determines when it's "ok" to do so?
I'm asking because i don't know how to react to this magazine:
To give you an idea, this tasty and colourful treat pictured above is called Final Solution German Chocolate Cake (Death By Chocolate Is For Pussies)...
"Inspired by Black Forest cake, this version of the chocolate and cherry creation ratchets up the intensity with a cocoa-logged filling, espresso and a crown of sugar shards. Execute with thoroughness and precision. Like the Germans would."